Advice You Would Give to Your 12 Year-Old Self? 1642
urbazewski asks: "If you could send a message back to your nerdy
unpopular 12 year old self, what would you say? I've been asking this one for several years, and the replies sound suspiciously like the lame advice I got from adults at that age ('just be yourself, dear'). The most creative answer was from an American-born Buddhist monk, who didn't think his 12 year old self would
listen to a message along the lines of 'Hey, what you're doing is kind of making things suck for me right now' --- he would send
a message to himself by adding extra lyrics to a song he really liked when he was in junior high school. I got the best replies from a large class at
UC Santa Cruz. The modal answer was 'Buy Microsoft.' About 7% of the class said 'Enjoy yourself in high school because college is really hard.' Another 7% said "Study harder in high school because college is really hard.' (The
best variant on that theme: 'Try to figure out what "studying" is'). In the hindsight-is-20/20 dept. there was a girl who said 'Do not date the
following people...' and then listed six names and a guy who said 'You know how you're thinking about trying to drive your dad's car? Don't!.' My personal favorite: 'You're a dork now, but don't worry, you'll be cool when
you're in college.'"
hrm.. (Score:4, Funny)
First Post? (Score:0, Funny)
Dont bang that ugly chick with the clap! (Score:2, Funny)
advice (Score:5, Funny)
Advice to 12 year old self (Score:5, Funny)
Self.. (Score:2, Funny)
My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:5, Funny)
Yeah, that's right, kill yourself, you heard me.
I want to find out if a fundamental paradox really causes the universe to end! I mean, suicide is not my bag, but if I had the chance to take all of you with me...
My Message to 12-year old self: (Score:5, Funny)
Easy! (Score:4, Funny)
Advice for my 12 year old self (Score:5, Funny)
Oh, and buy Cisco stock in 1998 and sell it in Jan 2000.
Period.
Hi.. (Score:5, Funny)
"Self, in 4 years you're going to meet a really nice girl at a party. This time guy some fucking condoms!"
easy (Score:5, Funny)
get laid (Score:3, Funny)
err, wait, not that this has happened to me....
advice to all 12 year olds (Score:3, Funny)
Advise to myself as a 12 year old... (Score:5, Funny)
But, in order to accomplish that, you must ignore your evil best friend, Adam. He will bring you Warcraft II, which will consume an inordinate amount of your time and eventually lead you to Diablo and Starcraft. Which is like heroin to you.
In summary: Get away from high school and addictive Blizzard products.
Watch your links (Score:5, Funny)
I'm Only Eleven... (Score:5, Funny)
Hmmm (Score:5, Funny)
Oh, and I'd probably tell myself to go on that bike ride with katie, she might be a bit wierd but she's also damn hot, and that kind of thing doesn't happen as often as TV makes you think it will.
Parents (Score:5, Funny)
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I would tell myself a few things... (Score:3, Funny)
2. Girls are not worth your time. They are fun while you have them but man you regret it when they are gone. Plus, after you have one, you're hooked.
3. Go to Victoria School of Visual and Performing Arts as soon as you can. You'll be very happy there.
4. Don't drop piano lessons. You'll regret it when all of your friends are cool pianists and you are just starting again.
5. Listen to your father, play cards more often with your father, go out and play sports more with your father. When you leave for university, you'll really miss the few good times you did have with him.
6. Save your money. Don't buy stuff on a whim, make sure you want it first. There are lots of stuff you'll think is cool to own, but later on you'll kick yourself for spending so much on it.
7. Star Trek is not as cool as you think it is.
8. Be nice to your sisters, especially Peggy. You may not approve of her ways, but you can learn a lot from her.
9. Get rid of your damn huge glasses, and get smaller ones or contacts.
10. Stop watching TV, if need be, just use the computer. Full House isn't that good of a series.
11. Exercise more, or do more physical activity. It's worth it.
12. Get involved in the community more. At Vic, get involved in the arts scene more. You'll miss it when you are gone.
That should be enough I think.
But most importantly.
13. Don't fight all the time. You are not right 100% of the time, and it's not worth the stress of the arguments and the loss of friendships when you fight.
That's about it. Plus, you know the usual. Invest in Microsoft, etc.
So I says to myself, self... (Score:5, Funny)
1. Don't take algebra, there's no practical use for that stuff.
2. Do all the cocaine you can get your hands on. The eighties will be much more fun that way...
3. Rush out and get laid by the first girl who will do it.
That's a pretty good start...
Heh (Score:5, Funny)
In the future, you are going to write to your nerdy, unpopular self.
In the meantime, think of something witty, cuz this sucks!
Later!
Don't get too hung up on Star Wars... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:First Post? (Score:2, Funny)
--sex [slashdot.org]
I would convince myself ... (Score:2, Funny)
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:3, Funny)
or... (Score:5, Funny)
My Advice (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Best advice I could give myself! (Score:2, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:4, Funny)
Ahhhhhh, appropriate RedDwarf quote! (Score:1, Funny)
So, what's the single most important piece of advice that you can give
me?
FUTURE LISTER: (thinks hard) Erm. Oh, yeah. Three years from now,
you'll go through a cosmic storm and end up in a parallel universe.
You'll materialise on an exact replica of Earth in the year 1989.
You'll want to go to the theatre. Whatever you do, don't go and see
"Run For Your Wife."
What I'd tell myself (Score:2, Funny)
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Re:Advice for my 12 year old self (Score:2, Funny)
I'm still pissed about that. Girl B was smokin'...
Listen, listen well (Score:5, Funny)
2) Don't, don't, don't think it'll be a good idea to use the dog clippers to trim the top of your head. You'll miss and need to make up some excuse that you were checking for 666.
3) Don't use silicone spray to lubricate the lawnmower. The gases are very flammable and you'll singe your lungs.
4) Have absolutely no moral dillemma about having fun with your girlfriend's hot little friend. Your girlfriend will dump you a week later for the SWAT sergeant.
5) Late at night, when everything is dark, do not blindly drink from the 1/2 gallon plastic jug in the back of the fridge. It will *look* like lemonade, but....
6) Have fun. Have lots of fun. Take lots of classes, even ones you don't need.
Hmm.. (Score:4, Funny)
Hey...Self... (Score:3, Funny)
(Modified my original post)
Tamagotchi (Score:4, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:1, Funny)
Re:Of course, what you really want to do is... (Score:4, Funny)
Big Mark [slashdot.org] to Little Mark: "Last week's winning lottery number are . . . "
Find a guy named Bill Gates (Score:5, Funny)
Re:12 is too young (Score:3, Funny)
"Son, it's better to regret things you HAVE done than to regret things you HAVEN'T done. And by the way, if you see your mom this weeked, could you tell her.....
SATAN, SATAN, SATAN!!!" (queue ripped black sabbath riff)
Ahh, the Butthole Surfers... how I miss ye.
Re:Hmmm (Score:5, Funny)
How about: "Hey self, stop smoking so much dope. Your memory will be shot by the time you're 18"
Re:The past is gone... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:advice (Score:5, Funny)
Cocacola.com would get you millions.
nike.com
reebok.com
Disney.com
just run down the Fortune 500 list back in 1991 and squat like a pro. Remember to put a "fan page" on each of them so the courts can't yank it.
"This si my coca Cola page! I LOVE COKE!
Herei s a pic of me drnking coke!!"
Re:I would convince myself ... (Score:3, Funny)
Re:First Post? (Score:1, Funny)
Re:First Post? (Score:3, Funny)
Re:advice = Paradox (Score:5, Funny)
Oh... and stay away from the airport ( especially the guy with the blonde wig and sunglasses )
10 undeniable truths to life, so listen up! (Score:5, Funny)
2. Sleep with everything that moves, knowing that as you make more money, the women get prettier. If you dont like the girls who like you, make more money!
3. STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY! STUDY!
4. Under no circumstances ever consider marriage unless you reach 30 and make less than 150K a year. If you are younger and/or make more, your options for trim are too good to settle for just one chick regardless of what you look like.
5. Dont buy a Mac.
6. Just because you will love Java, doesn't mean you can ever do anything productive with it. Stick with C++ and dont be afraid of garbage collection and pointers.
7. Everyone you think is cool, will be washing your car, turning down your hotel bed, and bringing you meals in 20 years, if you refuse to be like them now.
8. Those big tits you love so much right now, will be hanging around her navel in 25 years. Learn to like the flat girls.
9. Once you make decent money, you will forget all that crap about the environment, compassion and helping others, so why waste your time now?
10. Everyone does it, anyone who says they dont is lying.
Re:My Message to 12-year old self: (Score:5, Funny)
girls girls girls (Score:4, Funny)
Re:My Message to 12-year old self: (Score:5, Funny)
Things I would tell my 12 year old self (Score:3, Funny)
2. Don't have sex with the weird chick with the really short hair.
3. DO have sex with the blonde that drives an Audi
4. Learn to do calculus before the calc midterm.
5. Don't drive through a certain intersection on May 4th 2001.
6. Get in lots of trouble with the cops before you turn 18 so that it stays on your juvenile record. Remember kids - after 18, it stays on your rap sheet for life.
What about... (Score:5, Funny)
Note to future self (Score:5, Funny)
You won't be the first nerd to lose their virginity in their 20's.
You are not as weird as you think you are.
You are not as weird as Michael Jackson.
Re:Things I would tell my 12 year old self (Score:3, Funny)
Pennies? Stop shaving pennies! (Score:4, Funny)
Maybe so you you don't have to shave/cut your pennies and nickels, you could put 15-20% of every dollar you earn in the bank. I'd hate to deal with all those pennies...
THIS IS AMERICA, HOME OF THE LITIGIOUS! (Score:4, Funny)
I tried to give my 12-year-old self some advice... (Score:2, Funny)
Oh, and I violated causality and energy conservation by doing so, so the universe will end in three seconds. Sorry.
Crap, now my Delorean won't sell...
no no.. (Score:5, Funny)
Moderation: +1, Recursive (Score:2, Funny)
A good beating (Score:5, Funny)
register? Domain name? WTF? (Score:5, Funny)
To which 12yr old me would say:
What the hell does register mean, and what is slashdot.org?
33yroldme: It is a website
12yroldme: What the hell is a website?
33yroldme: You know the internet.
12yroldme: What the hell is the internet?
33yroldme: A bunch of computers hooked up together to share information.
12yroldme: What the hell is a computer?
33yroldme: You know, a personal computer.
12yroldme: No, I have no idea what you are talking about.
33yroldme: It is a screen, like a TV, and you can do all kinds of things on it, like playing games.
12yroldme: Oh, in your house, like an Atari?
33yroldme: Yeah, sort of, but they are all over the world too.
12yroldme: Oh, you mean in the arcade like a Pac-Man machine? And that new game, Pole Position? That game is cool. It is so realistic! Or Joust, that game is fun because two people can play at once. I have only played it a couple of times because it is brand new. There is always a line for it.
33yroldme: Dude, nevermind. Have fun.
Re:Parents (Score:2, Funny)
Why on earth do you think your dad *put* that Playboy in his sock drawer when any intelligent person could have effectively hidden it?
Think about it.
KFG
Re:Advice (Score:5, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:5, Funny)
loan (Score:0, Funny)
in microsoft stocks.
Re:Easy! (Score:1, Funny)
-Christy
Re:register? Domain name? WTF? (Score:1, Funny)
Run... (Score:1, Funny)
OH MY GOD! (Score:2, Funny)
Geez, that could have gotten me fired.
Tell yourself in the past to .... (Score:4, Funny)
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:3, Funny)
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:5, Funny)
I didn't think it was possible, but my brain has tied itself into several knots, and is now leaking out my nose.
Re:Advice for my 12 year old self (Score:5, Funny)
>Period.
I tried that and I'm still broke.
So I went back and told my 13-year-old self it was OK to put the Cisco proceeds into something called "Enron", but that he had to sell the Enron in 2001.
And I'm still broke.
Now I gotta go back in time again and tell my 14-year-old self not use the Enron proceeds to buy airline stocks.
I tell ya, ever since Goldman Sachs left the brokerage business and went into temporal mechanics, my life's been a living hell!
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:4, Funny)
P.S. All that stuff you think about when you're high, patent it.
Re:hrm.. (Score:3, Funny)
You're looney! No one would ever pay money for that!
Hmm, aside from the obvious... (Score:2, Funny)
I know you're hungry, I know you're drunk, and I know it smells appetising, but seriously, you don't want to eat the cat food... Oh, and go drag your buddy back inside, he wandered out into the street and passed out while you were MICROWAVING A BOWL OF CAT FOOD.
Come to think of it, can I give me a slap too?
Re:advice (Score:4, Funny)
Hmmm... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Parents (Score:2, Funny)
Re:register? Domain name? WTF? (Score:1, Funny)
Re:Here here... (Score:3, Funny)
What the hell? You insert Amazon Affiliate links into your recommendations in everyday, informal communication suggesting a movie??? Do you do this in conversation, too?
Re: late bloomer, eh? (Score:3, Funny)
I just want to say one word to you... 'plastics'. (Score:3, Funny)
I just want to say one word to you... ''plastics''.
In the late 90's... (Score:5, Funny)
Register immediately. Get ID #001.
Wait until 2003. Go to a site called 'ebay'. Sell [ebay.com] said slashdot ID. Let your mind boggle that you now have $81.
Re:My Message to 12-year old self: (Score:4, Funny)
Re:I'm Only Eleven... (Score:5, Funny)
*sigh* True story.
Re:advice to all 12 year olds (Score:3, Funny)
Youth is wasted on the young... (Score:2, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:3, Funny)
On second thought, maybe take the money for that patent filing charge and get some hookers and cheap beer instead.
Re:register? Domain name? WTF? (Score:2, Funny)
I think my new advice would be to start using the word "asshead"! That's awesome!
Go into the kitchen... (Score:3, Funny)
It will uh... raise your Charisma to 18!
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Re:hrm.. (Score:3, Funny)
and then, 20 years later I'd get it.
Don't wait... (Score:3, Funny)
The title is more suitable than you'll ever comprehend.
Re:Watch your links (Score:2, Funny)
"Never, ever, ever click a goatse.cx link. That image will forever be burned on my rectum...shudder...."
Cut your hair! (Score:5, Funny)
When you turn 19 you will, for some really stupid reason, decide that long hair is cool and looks good on you.
It doesn't. Your passport photo is an embarassment that you will live with for 10 years.
Watch out where them huskys go.. (Score:1, Funny)
don't worry... (Score:1, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:4, Funny)
Re:That's super terrif... (Score:3, Funny)
Re:advice = Paradox (Score:5, Funny)
Re:register? Domain name? WTF? (Score:5, Funny)
30yearoldme: It's kind of like a giant BBS, with unlimited porn.
12yearoldme: Mind if I take notes?
Re:Advice! (Score:1, Funny)
Why yes actually, it tastes even better when you don't drink it at all.
Your mommy just called, do you want any Juicy Juice?
Re:advice = Paradox (Score:3, Funny)
Divert power to the reflector dish so we can create a tachyon field.
Thanks for reminding me
Advice I would give a 12 year-old me? (Score:2, Funny)
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:5, Funny)
3DRealms (Score:2, Funny)
Re:hrm.. (Score:3, Funny)
And disable Javascript at all times. (Nobody likes a picture of ass that dances on your screen and avoids your mouse)
Bwahaha (Score:5, Funny)
What else can I say?
Re:My advice to my 12-yr-old self? (Score:3, Funny)
Two things:
1) That has to be the longest sentence I have ever seen.
2) That has GOT to be a run-on.
OT: you asshat (Score:3, Funny)
-If
I just thought of something, it could be a compound of "as shat." I don't know what that would mean, either. It's as if you were shat out of someone else? It's as if you had just shat?
Ugh, my head is swimming.
Re:Dear 12 year-old self . . . (Score:3, Funny)
This from a guy whose every post gets instantly modded +5. In the Kingdom of the Geeks, Wesley Crusher is the Fonz. :-)
Re:Listen, listen well (Score:2, Funny)
the only thing i don't get is the lemonade... what else looks like lemonade other than urine? and if that's it... why did you have a half gallon of urine in your fridge?
Re:hrm.. (Score:2, Funny)
"So, too, the other Debbie, and Theresa, and that cute frat chick in college, you god damned Colecovision playing dumbass freak!"
Re:Dear Self (Score:2, Funny)
Re:Bwahaha (Score:3, Funny)
I wouldn't listen to myself. (Score:3, Funny)
I don't think I would have listened to myself.