What's Geekier Than a Ferengi Bridesmaid? 145
gbulmash asks: "The newly updated "Star Trek: The Experience" at the Las Vegas Hilton not only offers thrills, chills, and a Borg invasion... It's offering Trek-themed Wedding Packages. You can be married on a replica of the Enterprise bridge by a costumed starfleet officer and have additional Trek characters as guests. I thought "how geeky", but then remembered the guy who paid $22,550 for Joaquin Phoenix's white armor from Gladiator , claiming he was going to wear it at his wedding. All this has inspired me to ask what's the geekiest or nerdiest thing you've ever encountered at a wedding? There was a thread on geeky party favors for a wedding last year, but this question goes beyond that... getting married by a Gandalf impersonator, a cake shaped like Cthulu, groom dressed as Darth Vader and his best man is a stormtrooper. I know tales like these are out there, so please share them."
Not geeky, but kinda silly (Score:5, Funny)
It's brilliant: if he ever forgets his anniversary, he can just say: "you thought I forgot? April fools!"
Re:Not geeky, but kinda silly (Score:5, Funny)
And if he ever wants a divorce...
Geekier than a Ferengi Bridesmaid? (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Geekier than a Ferengi Bridesmaid? (Score:2, Funny)
Re:Mail order brides (Score:2)
I'm at a loss for Ferengi jokes (Score:5, Insightful)
People hate tradition these days. The evidence is all around us. Religion becoming less popular, holidays and birthdays being chores and not celebrations, family reuinions being avoided, social events feared and loathed, etc, etc, etc.
So it's no surprise that the ceremony of marrying a man and a woman is being looked at the same way. People want to defy tradition. What better way to defy tradition than to get married in the most odd manner possible?
Of course many people are content to just get married without a ceremony, or with a tiny one. And some people are content to just follow tradition because they have nothing better to do.
Re:I'm at a loss for Ferengi jokes (Score:5, Insightful)
And some people are content to just follow tradition because they have nothing better to do.
And some people follow tradition because they find it meaningful and important.
The premise of your argument, that everyone hates tradition, is faulty. There is a segment of the population that feels this way, but they're a definite minority. You, personally, are probably deeply embedded in this minority and see it as the whole world. It's not.
Re:I'm at a loss for Ferengi jokes (Score:4, Interesting)
Re:I'm at a loss for Ferengi jokes (Score:2)
Huge Irony Moment (Score:2)
I will never forget this moment.
I was at a Pink Floyd concert at the Oakland Coliseum, some years ago. As is custom, people like to sing along with the songs.
So imagine, the band wails "
Re:I'm at a loss for Ferengi jokes (Score:1)
Granted, Ferengi are pretty ugly, and being female wouldn't help much...I'm sure someone could come up with a joke based on those facts.
--Ender
Way to UTTERLY MISS THE POINT! (Score:2)
If you see this sort of thing as defying tradition, that says much more about you and the circles you move in than it does about people in general.
I do think that in general, intelligent people are less likely to blindly follow tr
Geekier than that? (Score:5, Funny)
*ducks*
Even Geekier (Score:2)
Not having a friend who is a girl.
Re:Even Geekier (Score:5, Interesting)
Strange you should mention that, but I used to have lots of friends who were girls, many more than males. You could have far better, deeper conversations with them and they were often more open-minded.
When I was at school, I used to sit beside all the girls in class because they were very lovely and also well-behved so you could get peace and quiet to get on with learning stuff. I was the only boy in my physics class to get an A. The rest all failed except for a couple who got Cs.
As one gets older, and people pair off, friendships with the opposite sex decline and fade. I've lost some of my best friends in recent years.
Re:Even Geekier (Score:2)
Re:Even Geekier (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Even Geekier (Score:1)
That's not necessary - it's a question of where you aquire your new friends. I've been getting female friends continually (and I'm 29 now).
However, at the moment I'm specifically trying to avoid female friends I don't sleep with, as I'm working on up'ing pickup skills. When I'm with female friends, I get positive feedback on behaviour that results in getting fem
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:2)
I've been to several weddings like that. But I believe the correct term for that is "gay". At the last one I went to, there wasn't a geek in sight (myself excluded).
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:1)
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:1)
Indeed one could, and it would add to the comic effect.
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:4, Funny)
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:1)
Re:Geekier than that? (Score:1, Funny)
Americans are fat.
American guys like watching football.
Computer geeks are gay.
How exactly are these stereotypes wrong?
How about.... (Score:4, Funny)
*ducks again*
Recent marriage (Score:2)
But now things are rough (see journal)
Re:Recent marriage (Score:1)
Re:Recent marriage (Score:1)
Re:Recent marriage (Score:2)
Re:Recent marriage (Score:4, Insightful)
Re:Recent marriage (Score:5, Insightful)
From the journal...
So cut the poor guy some slack. I hope he tells his wife slashdotters say, "get well soon" -- instead of thinking about how some coward tried to make him feel even worse than he felt before.
Re:Recent marriage (Score:5, Interesting)
And apart for the six 'critical' hours I was away for that damn server problem, I haven't been away from her for more than 20 min *ever* in the past month or so.
So yeah, I'd like to think I'm trying to "do the right thing" -
Re:Recent marriage (Score:2)
the right thing is to ignore coward trolls.
Do what you gotta do, you know better than anyone what that is.
Tell your wife the Slashdot collective wishes her the best. And you, well, get well soon too
Bill Gates and the Borg Queen (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Bill Gates and the Borg Queen (Score:1)
The bride always assmiliates the groom.
Re:Bill Gates and the Borg Queen (Score:1)
I am pretty sure the result would be sphere and cube's across the galaxy turning blue and dying about once every month.
Not exactly geeky (Score:4, Funny)
As for true geekdom at a wedding - closest thing I've seen is some of the groom's roleplaying buddies getting drunk and taking the microphone to tell anecdotes that happened in game. That was mortifyingly geeky but really had more to do with alcohol than actual geekdom.
Ferengi Wedding (Score:5, Insightful)
In related news, please invite me to your wedding. Thanks.
Just be careful... (Score:5, Funny)
Re:Just be careful... (Score:2)
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Whatever (Score:3, Funny)
What do you get a Ferengi-Elf mixed couple? (Score:3, Insightful)
Re:What do you get a Ferengi-Elf mixed couple? (Score:2)
I'm not sure what's geekier... (Score:4, Interesting)
Barbarian in a gentle medieval wedding (Score:2, Insightful)
I "married" my sister in a wizard costume (Score:1)
Re:I "married" my sister in a wizard costume (Score:5, Funny)
You gotta be careful with that wording, my first though was, damn I didn't know Rednecks read slashdot and why would they wear a wizard costume??.
Re:I "married" my sister in a wizard costume (Score:2, Funny)
You misunderstood - if you prefixed the word wizard with the word grand, it all makes sense
Just... (Score:2)
Wedding of Lt. K'Allen and 2nd Lt Torsha (Score:4, Interesting)
From last Simpsons ep. (My Big Fat Geek Wedding) (Score:2)
Look--there they are!
They're going into multi-purpose room B.
That room has a dry erase board.
They could be doing anything in there. Anything.
Edna, the klingons have a romantic saying: ( Speaks klingon click-clack-style )
All: Aw...
Roughly translated, it means "I would kill the children of a thousand planets just to see you smile."
Aw... that is the most romantic thing I've ever heard, which is kin
Naked (Score:3, Informative)
Re:Naked (Score:2)
Hey, Mr. Vulcan! I've got a logic puzzle for you! But first, what is the 20th digit of Pi?
Making a joke of it (Score:3, Insightful)
Still, it really rubs be the wrong way to think that people can be so into this that they will taint an important day like that with it. I mean really, you're making a promise to spend your life with someone and they basically make a joke of it. Why would you do that? It's supposed to be a solem occasion. Do you want to show pictures of that to your kids? Why not just dress up as clowns and get married by a hedgehog?
Get silly at your reception but the idea of getting married with lightsabers or in elvish really gives me the creeps.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:2)
If you view this as solemn, maybe you shouldn't be getting married. It's not a death sentence, it's a day of celebration about something that should make you very excited and happy.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:2)
We then had a reception where we all got tipsy and silly. My groomsmen and I geeked out and everyone had a fun, carefree time.
There are some things that you can take with a light heart and some things that you should take seriously. My wedding
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:5, Insightful)
If you have those sorts of opinions of star trek or of whatever (I don't like star trek), then obviously it shouldn't be part of your wedding. No one is saying that star trek should be involved in everyone's wedding. But there are people for whom these are important. They are large parts of their lives and their identities. So they would rather have them as parts of one of the most important days of their lives than just something that is foreign and meaningless to them, like a "promise to God". Just because people want to incorporate things they care about into their wedding doesn't mean that they care less about their vows than you or that marriage isn't important to them.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:2)
Actually, I am saying that.
And I've just submitted a petition to Governator Schwarzenegger to that effect.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:2)
So now you have something important in your life tied to some crappy, run-of-the-mill, just-like-everyone-elses event.
Great if thats what you want, different strokes for different folks.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:3, Interesting)
Oh, I bet you're the life of the party.
It's *their* day -- they want to have *fun*. Who are you to dictate to other people how they should live their life?! So it appears silly to you -- tough. That is their decision to make, and we must respect it, even if we don't agree with it.
I don't see a rule or law where it says if you do someing serious, it can't be fun a
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:2)
Costumes and make-believe are for birthday parties and comic book conventions. Making promises free of goblins, robots and other silly shit is for weddings. Again, just my opinion.
I'm all about going on r
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:5, Insightful)
Supposed to be solemn? Sez who? When you get married, you're welcome to have whatever wedding you want, of course. But I think it's more important that weddings be serious and meaningful to the participants. Serious doesn't have to mean traditional, boring, or solemn.
A friend of mine got married a few years back. He is a delightful, creative freak, as are many of his friends. A traditional, solemn wedding would have made him and his friends miserable. Why would they dedicate their lives to making interesting art and causing lively trouble, only to pretend otherwise on their wedding day?
Answer: they wouldn't. As with everything else they do, they took traditional answers and shook them up. They had a wedding that was serious, heartfelt, and quirky, filled with love and laughter. It might have been their wedding but it was also their wedding.
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:1)
Re:Making a joke of it (Score:3, Insightful)
The decision to be married is important, how you express it to others doesn't matter.
Well... (Score:2)
And since I'm an actual geek, that counts, right?
[Plug] If you need a non-religious 'minister' in Minnesota, Email me! I'm cheap!
Re:Well... (Score:2)
We did the ole white dress/black tux thing, but I met the bride on a MUD and the officiant on a chat (which was pretty much just a MUD without the mobs) so we did have a certain geek quotient.
Re:Well... (Score:2)
They did do a very nice white dress/tux thing. I guess I was the only non-traditional thing there (and even I was in a suit which I surprisingly liked).
They didn't want some priest pushing them around, and she has something of a dislike for judges (fo
My Star Wars Wedding Story (Score:5, Interesting)
I think it was April 26th, 1999, or shortly after. My fiancée and I were discussing when we should get married. My sister had a wedding coming up as well and we didn't want our weddings to conflict. I was thinking about this User Friendly comic [userfriendly.org] and said "Well, we can eliminate May 19th, or none of our friends will be there."
My fiancée responded, "Well, we could have it May 19th, if we had it at the theater. . . ."
Went down and asked the local Edwards theater [regmovies.com] manager if we could have the wedding May 19th in the lobby. He had to check with Mr. Edwards himself, but we got the ok. People were already in line outside the theater.
I called the state for what was required to officiate a wedding. They referred me to the Universal Life Church, which I found offered on-line ordination [ulc.org]. So I instant messaged a friend of mine at work and he went and got his ordination real quick, printing his certificate out at work (I think it still hangs in his cubicle). He agreed to dress as Qui Gon Gin and quote Yoda in the ceremony ("Do, or do not. There is no try.")
A friend of mine volunteered his for his wife, a very talented seamstress, to make our costumes. We set out to find the assorted props and such that we would need to complete the experience. I picked up a toy Han Solo blaster from Toys 'R Us. It was made of orange plastic. I used a black magic marker to color it black, adding a few highlights and scuffs.
We camped out overnight the last day, night and day before tickets went on sale. My boss gave me time off since he knew it was for getting hitched and all. We bought tickets for the first show after 5pm on the 19th (although a lot of the guests went to the midnight one too), so the most people could attend.
Everyone was in costume. I was Han Solo, she was Princess Leia and Darth Vader gave her away, Chewbaka was my best man while Boba Fett looked on. Jedis, with their lightsabers drawn, lined the isle. The ceremony music from the end of Episode 4 filled the lobby for the wedding march, and after the wedding we played the original celebration music from the end of Episode 6.
Then the manager let us all go straight to the theater to get good seats for the movie. No standing in line outside necessary (which some people had been doing all week). We lined up outside the theater while they finished cleaning it up. My wife and I walked down the line of guests and shook their hands. A reverse wedding line is much more efficient then a traditional one.
I ran to use the restroom before the movie started, and I ran into a guy who saw I was dressed up and said Did you hear someone got married out in the lobby?
ObNit (Score:5, Funny)
Can we presume on the honeymoon Han fired first? =)
(I think star trek weddings are geeky in a very scary way, but that's a great wedding story that's geeky in a cute way.)
Re:My Star Wars Wedding Story (Score:2)
Re:My Star Wars Wedding Story (Score:2)
Re:My Star Wars Wedding Story (Score:2)
If you can believe it I haven't scanned any in yet. Had a lot of other things on my mind immediately after the wedding.
Re:My Star Wars Wedding Story (Score:2)
You gotta show us some photographs! I am sure everybody is dying to see them!
Wedding compromises (Score:4, Insightful)
"Honey, I want to dress like Darth Vader for our wedding." "No, you don't, dear." "But I really--" "No. You. Don't. Dear." "...So, tuxedo with tails, then?"
"And then the minstrels are going to go down the aisle--" "Wouldn't you rather have a nice, traditional wedding?" "Well, SCA is really important to us--" "I'm not paying for my daughter to be married in some medieval Halloween costume."
I suspect many, uh, "creative" wedding plans have been scrapped in favor of domestic tranquility and financing. So when you do get a true geek wedding, it's because both partners are hardcore geeks (or one is very tolerant), and they are secure enough financially and in their relationships with their families to do things their way.
That said...if I ever do lose my mind and get married: Vegas. Elvis impersonator. Biker boots and a leather miniskirt. Then a wild night of drunkenness in which my groom and I frighten old ladies and wake up the next evening with no memory of what transpired. Ah, I have such a soft spot for fantasy weddings.
-Carolyn
Re:Wedding compromises (Score:3, Funny)
That wasn't a dream Britney!!!
Proposal comprimises (Score:2)
Then the logistics of it hit me. We never really went to sporting events and she would probably be more embarassed than flattered at having her face televised on a stadium screen. Some fancy outdoors/banner thing was a possibility, but weather was getting tricky and I wasn't sure I could count on it. I considered havin
The groom in white? (Score:4, Funny)
Sounds like he picked the right color to wear for his wedding.
Wedding rebellion (Score:2)
The bride's mother was not happy.
Re:And that may have been the point! (Score:2)
FYI - This is not Simpsons Plagiarism (Score:3, Informative)
As for a Ferengi bridesmaid having to be naked, who says it has to be female? I know of at least one woman who had her gay male best friend be her maid of honor. And no, he didn't wear a dress. He wore a man's suit, but in the same color as the bridesmaids dresses.
- Greg
Only Mildly Geeky (Score:1)
What's geekier? (Score:1, Funny)
Kathleen Fent Read This Story (Score:2)
For the Baseball Geek... (Score:2, Interesting)
Penguin cake (Score:2)
underwater wedding (Score:4, Interesting)
beat this... (Score:2)
Said PowerBook also served as DJ, crossfading between our songs during the reception dance party, and even played our First Dance song. The PowerBook in turn, was plugged into the mixer, to some heavily amplified Marshalls. Who needs a DJ when you hav
Another NGJB (not geeky, just brilliant) (Score:3, Interesting)
Once, I got talking to a coworker about this. She said that she had anticipated this problem when she got married but they'd picked a venue to help them out. They got married on a small yacht with a maximum capacity of 17 passengers. When her Mom tried to add some out of state relatives to the list, she casually replied:
"Of course they're invited! But are you sure Auntie Debbie can tread water in her wheelchair?"
easy... (Score:2)
Almost a Halloween wedding (Score:3, Interesting)
The wedding was planned to happen in a park on the Saturday before Halloween. Tim arrived at the park in the radio station's Hummer from doing a remote show wearing his "The Tim Reaper" costume. It consisted of a skeleton unitard, a red satin cape, and devil's pitchfork. We were all stunned, but Jim explained he had brought his minister robes. He ran back to the Hummer zipped on the robe. We couldn't tell if he still had the unitard on because were distracted by the huge coffee stain on the front of the robe.
Despite all this, we were all happy our friends were married and domestic bliss was ensured. Then about 2 years later, my friend saw Tim at a local bar. Tim was telling another patron about marriages he had performed. He said he married a couple and forgot to file the papers for a year. My friend turned to Tim and said , "Hey, you married my wife and me two years ago." Tim quickly replied, "I know it wasn't you. I am pretty sure." ;-)
What? No Romulan Ale? (Score:2)
LOL
Dolemite
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Star Wars (Score:2)
--rhad
Not really geeky, but cool (Score:2)
He spent most of the ceremony trying to crawl under the seats to get out of the sun - it was an outdoor wedding on a warm day.
Afterwards, he posed with my wife and I for some of our wedding photos.
argh! (Score:2)
But now this post has been up for days and only even geekier guys than me would be reading it.
[OT] Re:My Friend's Big Fat Geek Wedding (Score:1, Insightful)
So, ignore both the moderation and the lad's journal, unless you enjoy reading nondescript plotless fiction. Reading this journal entry is like catching someone masturbating. Just be kind and pass on, rather than stopping to examine the poor sap's in
Re:My Friend's Big Fat Geek Wedding (Score:5, Informative)
It's just some bad fiction--don't bother with the journal entry.
Re:My Friend's Big Fat Geek Wedding (Score:1, Interesting)
Good luck with everything!
Re:My Friend's Big Fat Geek Wedding (Score:2)
D'oh! That's what I get for posting in haste, forgetting I have a (small) profile. Thanks for not raking me over the coles.
Re:Ferengi (Score:2)