Ask Slashdot: How Do I Stay Employable? 708
illcar writes "Hi, I am a 40-year-old working as a senior developer for one of the biggest investment banks. I have always worked as a full time employee in my career; however the last 5-6 years have been very tough for me because of office politics, outsourcing, and economic conditions. The financial industry is not doing well, and we may be at the brink of another round of layoffs. My family is growing, my spouse does not work, and I still don't own a house. I am worried regarding my job security & career growth. Considering Medicare does not kick in till 65, I am still looking at 25 long years of career. I am wondering what the best way would be for me to stay employable in the coming years?"
illcar continues: "1. Should I stay technical, and be ready to work as consultant/contractor? How does medical insurance work in that case?2. Should I capitalize on the domain knowledge, and move onto business/managerial side?
3. Will the MBA degree or alternate career help?
4. Any other suggestions?
Thanks."
As a 45 year old working in the industry (Score:5, Insightful)
As a 45 year old working in the industry, my first thought is find yourself a nice quiet place to cry.
But honestly if you can do it move to management. If you've got a proven track record in the field, you've got a good chance at being one of those magic managers who actually can manage programmers (it's like herding cats). They won't respect you of course, but at least you'll be able to communicate with them which is huge.
And the IT managers I know make decent money.
Personally, I'm too much of a BOFH to go that route.
Re:As a 45 year old working in the industry (Score:4, Insightful)
Re:As a 45 year old working in the industry (Score:4, Informative)
Re:As a 45 year old working in the industry (Score:5, Informative)
Bzzzt.
Please turn in your geek card.
PFY = "Pimply Faced Youth"
Re:As a 45 year old working in the industry (Score:5, Informative)
stop doing grunt work (Score:5, Insightful)
At this stage in your career you should be focusing on the bigger picture (in terms of projects) stuff. I know the word is tainted around here, but ... project management.
Grunt development work should be done by newer developers (who will work for less), you need to be more focused on managing a team, consulting, etc.
Don't sell yourself short. You've likely seen many projects succeed and fail, and should have learned lessons on how they could be better managed. Leave the grunt work to those developers who don't have that experience, and try to get into the position of managing them.
Knowing what can be done and how will make you a better manager - you don't need to be the one doing it.
Re:stop doing grunt work (Score:4)
Project managers are the bottom of the manager totem pole. "Project" usually means stuff like getting everyone to use sharepoint against their will. This is different from product manager or team lead or something that is important.
Re:stop doing grunt work (Score:5, Interesting)
Hey. That gives me an idea.
The guy's in the financial industry. He already knows tech. With a year's education [cfainstitute.org] (and his employer may well cover the cost), he could do a hell of a lot better job than most sell-side analysts do.
Half the barrier to entry to finance is jargon. (Kinda like how they see tech, LOL.)
Anyone with a 4-year degree in CompSci can handle any of the math required for a CFA Level 1 (even if, at age 40, you'll need to dust off some stuff you haven't used since college). It's basically a 4th-year-college/1st-year-of-postgrad course.
Whether he uses the acquired knowledge to be more useful to his employer (in that he'll be able to understand the needs of the people his code supports), or to switch careers at his current employer (downside: wearing a suit, upside: possibility of membership in the 1%), or to jump ship and work for another employer, or even if he just wants a skill that can pay the bills outside of work (you don't need a job to have a trading account, and if the markets ever shut down for more than a few weeks, everyone's out of a job except for the survivalists), is up to him.
Re:stop doing grunt work (Score:5, Insightful)
This is very sage advice. There is no such thing as "grunt development work" - developers will make or break your project. Project managers are only there to support the team and to protect them from the rest of the organization.
The world is steadily moving to agile - only those delivering value to the team matter. Everyone else is "overhead". Be wary.
Re:stop doing grunt work (Score:5, Insightful)
That sounds like the kind of CIO that'd make me want to run in the other direction, fast. To use a military analogy it's like saying an army only need privates, be wary of being promoted to an officer. I know some brilliant coders that have written excellent code on projects that have flopped miserably. Why? Very often because the project was a bad idea to begin with, the scope and requirements unclear, conflicting and changing or they're stuck waiting for input or some other group that isn't delivering so ultimately it failed to deliver any value to customers or the intended users anyway. That view is utterly failing to see the value of breaking down the overall goal into objectives, the logistics, equipment, support and training to put that private in the right place at the right time to pull the trigger.
That's not to say becoming an officer is for everybody and there's room for special forces, extremely high skill people but still doers that aren't about commanding or supporting other people. I think a lot of people here on Slashdot would like that position, it's not about drawing up battle plans on the map (or is that Powerpoint these days), it's about high quality execution. It still needs commanders with a clue though, if you just put marines in the trenches with everybody else there's little room for excellence, you're just cannon fodder like the rest. You need someone to say "This is the critical part of the mission, and I need you to do it because you're the best of the best". Either that or go into architecture, like what's the backbone of our fighting capability going to be. I think everyone here has tried building a software app on quicksand. It never ends well.
It's a lot easier to find a job... (Score:5, Insightful)
make sure your resume looks good (Score:5, Informative)
After that, you should decide what you want. If you want to become a contractor, focus on skills (and resume writing skills) that will help you get that. If you want to go into management, go for that. If you want to remain a programmer, then aim for that.
Realistically, there is enough demand in the market for any of those positions if you can do it reasonably well. If you aren't willing to relocate, that could possibly limit your options, though.
Re:make sure your resume looks good (Score:4, Insightful)
Super post, I agree fully.
Another thing that you may want to consider is to go for "practice" interviews. Having a good interview is also a skill, and the more you do it, the better you get at it. If you interview for positions regularly (even if you are not serious about taking it up), then you become innately prepared for the type of questions that often gets asked, and don't have to overcome your nerves in the process.
I learned this lesson the hard way recently. I haven't been interviewing in the last few years, but I had to start looking for employment again - and I was shocked at how rusty I was in the interviews. Things that I *know* became difficult to communicate, because I have not thought about it for a while (even the most diverse development project takes you away from some technologies for a while). As I was struggling to find my vocabulary (I'm not a native English speaker), I became self-conscious and nervous.
But once I interviewed a few times, I found that the common topics came much more naturally to me. My confidence improved, and I think my overall image in the interviews improved a lot.
prepare for the worst (Score:5, Informative)
It's a changing world, few people can expect a long career with the same company. prepare you yourself for the worst situation, live in a house that you can afford, not the house that you want. Give your kids a good education, not the best education. Be prepared to shift into a more stable job at the expense of salary. I'm 55, if I lose my job tomorrow then I'm out cutting lawns or doing part-time teaching(?). And if things don't go bad, then you are in a good position for retirement. Start planning for 65 now, not in 10 years time.
Re:prepare for the worst (Score:5, Insightful)
Be prepared to shift into a more stable job at the expense of salary.
Spot-on. Of course I'm biased, because I've tended to think that way all along.
Check out local universities - they don't pay nearly as well as the private sector, but generally they're lower stress positions with better benefits.
Solution #2 (Score:5, Insightful)
-> 2. Should I capitalize on the domain knowledge, and move onto business/managerial side? -
This. I'm in the same boat as you without some of the office politics. However my manager is changing positions (and probably companies) soon. I managed to convince him to put the other person, far less senior, under me on the org chart. Very little actual management should be needed but it gives a bump to the resume' and a little bit of protection should the new boss want to do some house-cleaning.
If you have someone where you are now who will do that with you, go for it. If not, then start quietly looking around for a place looking for a senior developer who can manage a team. At this point in your career (like mine) it is probably more important to move up than to stay loyal. It gets progressively harder to show management -initiative- (which is what most people want in a development manager) as you get past 40. It seems like under-40 being a direct contributor is fine ... but post-40 the longer you take to make a move to management the less they feel you are able.
Also ... brush up on your PROJECT management skills if you aren't currently doing alot of it. Get Agile (scrum or similar). See if you can do scrum-master-like duties. Most development organizations will recognize that even if you don't have direct reports ... as a project leader you ARE managing not only people but also development.
Management isn't some wonderful panacea ... I don't particularly like it myself ... but especially with the huge influx of employable-but-new faces graduating that are very hungry for a job ... it is very hard to stay competitive. Like you said ... you have 25 years to go. If you don't want to manage people in the HR sense, you have options. If you don't want to be coding as much as time goes on, you have the larger group HR-ish options (but not so much until you've done a report or two for a bit).
Job Security here... (Score:5, Insightful)
You are a Senior Developer for a Bank. By all accounts, you should have job security. Why? Because banks are notorious for having antiquated technology, particularly in-house code. As a Senior Developer, you are in a position to make yourself irreplaceable. Dig your self into the old code that no one wants to touch. Dig in like a tick. If a) you are the only one who knows the language and b) the only one who can understand the logic, then they will keep you. Don't push it, because if they know you are extorting them they will cut off their arm to spite you. Lay low and know where the skeletons are buried. You should have no problem cruising through til retirement.
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Re:Job Security here... (Score:5, Interesting)
RBS (a UK bank) were told by dozens of people that getting rid of the people who knew the batch processing system and moving their jobs to India was dumb. They did it anyway.
Week before last it all went bang. People weren't getting paid, at least 2 people were stuck in jail because they couldn't prove that they'd paid their bail due to RBS systems being down.
RBS won't change a thing after this.
There is no long term loyalty from any job.
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banks are actually technology companies, and that their IT (and especially in-house development team) are key business drivers.
No, banks are not technology companies. They are companies that take other people's money and use it to earn interest for themselves by lending it out at higher rates of interest than they pay to their customers.
They need to be able to do this efficiently, but all IT does is help remove a lot of the paperwork. It's like saying that a law firm is a technology company because they have replaced a lot of the typists they had fifty years ago.
The use of complicated algorithms to manufacture meaningless d
you haven't begun to see tough (Score:5, Insightful)
you won't own a house, forget about it. your spouse needs to get a job. education at your age is a scam, it won't help you as employers only care about your experience in what they are immediately using. be thankful you haven't been out of work for over a year like many.
Emigrate (Score:3, Interesting)
then apply for an H1B visa to work in the US. I've heard employers prefer to keep indentured servants around rather than their 'valued employees'.
Easy (Score:5, Funny)
Create a program that shifts fractions of cents from your company and puts them in an account you have access to; Then, if anyone gets suspicious, burn down the building to cover your tracks.
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Keep Up With Current Technology (Score:5, Insightful)
Those contracting companies usually provide benefits (health care, 401K etc) for a price and do you a 1040 at the end of the year, just like you're used to now. If the company you're working for likes you, they'll usually do a full time convert or just keep extending your contract perpetually. If you know which way the wind is blowing, it's not so stressful. Sometimes I just shotgun my resume out there again anyway if they drag their feet on a renewal, just to see what's hot in an area.
It helps to keep a network of recruiters, too. I always try to help 'em out when they come looking, even if I'm not in the market. Currently most of my network of past co-workers is employed, though, so I haven't been very much help lately.
If the company you're currently working for is very sketchy, I'd farm out the resumes now and ride that job 'til you find a new one. If you get laid off before that, go for the unemployment. Whatever you do, don't let on to what you're up to until you're leaving and don't quit! One way or another you've got to ride that thing into the ground unless you find something else first.
You can go it on your own as a self-employed contractor, too, but that's really more work than I care to put into working. Sure you make HUGE briefcases full of cash that way, but you're doing all the admin and tax crap the 1040 contracting companies do for you. Some people love that. You might hear from a few of them in this story. I work to live and would rather do other things with my free time.
Re:Keep Up With Current Technology (Score:5, Informative)
Not such a good move when he is the sole breadwinner. Which is his biggest problem - choosing to have a partner not working in this day and age is like having a servant. A bloody luxury, and one that makes you so much more dependent on your employer. And you should never let yourselve be in an unequal power relationship for long because you are gonna get yourself rogered big time.
what if there's nothing you can do? (Score:5, Insightful)
What if there's nothing you can do to stay employable? Then what? It's ugly out there. They will lay you off just for looking over 40 no matter how well you perform.
I'd shape up my finances as much as possible. Cut expenses to the bone. Trade in the gas guzzlers for gas sippers, set the thermostat higher in the summer and lower in the winter, use a clothesline (actually, an indoor rack works fairly well). Never go to the movies and cancel the cable TV subscription, etc. Use the Internet for that stuff. Pay off the credit cards. You know, all the stuff they advise people to do to improve their finances. As for buying a house, forget it, unless it's some foreclosure deal you can pick up super cheap. (I hear Detroit has houses for under $10k.) Keep renting, and live with the contempt and second class treatment that's routinely dished out to renters. All a house will do is tie you down, make it harder to move to a job.
With finances not hindering you, you have another option: consulting. Consultants must be set up to weather slow times.
Ass from your head (Score:3, Interesting)
The only thing I've really gathered from this thread is that no one knows dick about what's going on and no one knows their ass from their head about what to do about it. It's simply amazing that there is no real guidance here and all views are diametrically opposing.
This tells me a few things:
1) No way's better than another, no method of thinking is better than someone elses; do your best.
2) Everyone is still fighting for the same slice of pie and it's only getting more random as to how that's done; competition is a bitch.
Re:Ass from your head (Score:5, Insightful)
The only thing I've really gathered from this thread is that no one knows dick about what's going on and no one knows their ass from their head about what to do about it. It's simply amazing that there is no real guidance here and all views are diametrically opposing.
This tells me a few things:
1) No way's better than another, no method of thinking is better than someone elses; do your best.
2) Everyone is still fighting for the same slice of pie and it's only getting more random as to how that's done; competition is a bitch.
That's the whole point of discussion, to have different views and opinions even if you, in your infinite wisdom, don't think that any of the opinions posted have value. Personally I think that your post is flamebait and didn't add anything useful to the discussion at all.
The original poster, and all of those of us who are in a similar position, are interested in those different opinions which will apply more or less to each of us as our situations, while similar, are each different. Training, for example, might not help a 40 year old programmer find a job, but might well be of use to a 40 year old network engineer who is also looking for work.
Re:Ass from your head (Score:5, Informative)
Then you haven't read what I have read, or haven't taken it in. There has been quite a bit of useful advice:
1) The wife should get work - more than one income = greater security
2) Get into an area of the bank that is high value and obscure
3) Go contracting.
4) Drastically reduce costs
I have no idea why your post has been modded interesting, but all of the above are worth a go, even if 3) is high risk without 1), but as you say in this economic climate things are uncertain.
My golden rule has always been: Spend what you need, not what you earn. This means that as you earn more money, don't just upgrade the car/house/family/holidays etc as if your new income is the norm. Work out what you need. The rest goes into assets. For a rainy day, or for retirement, which ever comes first.
Stay Hungry (Score:4, Interesting)
I am not in your specific field, but close. I am 36. My advice:
Stay hungry. Keep reading programming blogs. Work on hobby projects on weekends to keep your skills sharp. Write stupid games in languages you never use at work. Obsess over every little mistake in your code. Post ridiculous nuances of horrible PHP (fill in your language here) behavior.
When necessary, stay up till 4 AM writing code. Build a team of hungry programmers. Build a team of guys who code all day, and go home and code a little more when they're not playing Diablo or whatnot.
I hate to be an anus-hole, but your post sounds like the words of a tired burnt-out programmer. I wouldn't hire you. Medicare? Job Security and Office Politics? I didn't see anything in your post to indicate that you're still passionate about software development...And passion, IMHO, is the crux of staying employable in this field.
Get a life (Re:Stay Hungry) (Score:5, Insightful)
>When necessary, stay up till 4 AM writing code. Build a team of hungry programmers. Build a team of guys who code all day, and go home and code a little more when they're not playing Diablo or whatnot.
Are you looking forward to ill-health (Weekends? 4AM? Your body is not going to put up with that kind of shit forever), divorce, and/or alienated kids (assuming you even manage to keep a stable relationship)?
This isn't meant as an insult. It's just the naked truth. That kind of shit is for twenty-somethings who don't know any better.
Re:Get a life (Re:Stay Hungry) (Score:5, Insightful)
How about this middle ground: fight to keep your skills current, but remember why you fight.
I did that at 36... (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Stay Hungry (Score:4, Insightful)
Passion is important, but so is effectiveness. It seems obvious that the more time I spend doing something and the more attention I give to it, the more I will progress. However, this is not true. Programming is a task of the mind. If you are not alert, there will be things that slip by you. I'm not talking about bugs, I'm talking about missing the abstractions that make you a better programmer. Not only that, but the mind requires time to sift through the information you're giving it. You actually need time to forget what you are doing in order to reinforce it.
I highly recommend that you limit the time you spend at the keyboard. You will progress faster as a programmer. You need activities that allow your mind to wander. This will consolidate what you are doing. I actually quit my job as a programmer and now only spend about 2-3 hours a day (if that) programming. In the 5 years that I've done that my programming ability has improved at a much faster pace than when I was working 70 hour weeks. Because I have so little time, I'm focused and aware of what I am doing. Because I am not tired, my ability is much higher and I discover things faster. Because I give my brain time, the concepts coalesce faster.
Anyway, give it a try sometime. I think you'll be surprised.
Re:Stay Hungry (Score:5, Insightful)
When necessary, stay up till 4 AM writing code.
Oh, just fuck off. People like you are part of the problem, not the solution.
Apprentice to a plumber (Score:5, Interesting)
It can't be outsourced, and have you ever heard of an unemployed plumber?
It's meaningful work, too, work which has saved more lives over the centuries than doctors have.
(Even I can't tell if I'm serious about this).
You're right (Score:3)
Another thing: there are plenty of plumbers but not that many intelligent plumbers. The same goes for electricians. A plumber with IT qualifications will normally have the business and topological skills to do the job better and for less than a plumber without, and b
I know this will fly against conventional wisdom.. (Score:5, Interesting)
...but let's face it, some of us have no interest in management, or consulting. That's why, after a 15-year career in software development, I turned to teaching. And if you're laughing because I'm advocating teaching as an alternative career, you miss my point: Sometimes getting out of the field is a viable option. I grew tired of lining the pockets of CEOs and PHBs and gutless business owners who simply ran their businesses into the ground, businesses built partially on my hard work. Sometimes you have to take a step back and ask yourself "What exactly have I done for society these past years?" Chances are, if you're a software developer at a "large investment bank," not a hell of a lot.
Programmers that know their stuff are gold (Score:5, Informative)
IT tends to throw out the old and import the young because the old hands don't keep up with the new technology. But if you have special skills that are vital to your industry they'll keep you around until you choose to retire or die of old age.
You will have to keep up on technologies as they come. Your company will tell you what skills they're looking for... Definitely keep training.
The suggestion to move to management also isn't bad.
Work on increasing your value and look at job openings that are close to your skill set. Ideally you don't want to care if you're fired because you're so valuable that you'll just get another job.
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IT tends to import the young because they can be bullied into doing crazy hours for no extra money.
Go to a company that respects devs or go consult (Score:4, Insightful)
There's two types of companies out there: those that see the software you create as an asset and a source of revenue (directly or indirectly) to be managed, and those who see the software you create as an overhead cost to be minimized. These companies will treat you accordingly: in short, your salary is either part of a profit center, or part of a cost center. If you can help it, _NEVER_ work building software that is viewed as an expense. In all but the most spectacular, idealistic, privately held utopias of small companies you will be treated like vermin if what you build is an expense. When the software you build generates revenue and you work in concert with business, then you're respected and valued as a developer. You are not viewed as a "code producing resource" to be maximized and controlled.
A fun spin on this is to sell your experience as a consultant. BDC's (Big Dumb Companies) are full of projects in need of rescue or "quick turnaround" that the BDC will pay out a tasty premium for 6-9 months at over 2X what they pay their own coding slobs who are too dis-organized and balkanized by middle-management fiefdoms to get the chance of doing a project in the first place. When you do this, you're working in a profit center (for you consulting agency or perhaps yourself) _AND_ you get the advantage of exposure to a variety of tools and problem domains.
Oh. And for the record, don't buy a fucking house. Second worst decision I ever made, IMHO. The idea that it's the smart long term financial solution for everyone is total bullshit: http://genxfinance.com/your-home-is-not-an-investment-dont-treat-it-like-one/
Banks (Score:5, Insightful)
I worked in IT at one of the larger investment banks for a bit.
At somewhere like Apple or Google, IT is everything. Or a lot. At an investment bank it is nothing - the investment bankers and sales people are the entire focus. You can argue about how important IT is there, but these are institutions with tons of money to burn, and if they make a mistake, the US taxpayer will always bail them out. That's the thing, they have a ton of money. I have seen insane things go on in terms of technical time bombs waiting to go off. But they have so much money, they can throw money at any problem and it will be fixed. IT is treated like garbage I would say. I think it's insane people would work there in IT over a long period of time. Where I worked, almost everyone who did not leave of their own accord was pushed out - they can people all the time, especially when the market dips. Then again, it is such a big industry, sometimes people find a good spot which seems like a sinecure, and it is not so bad. But some people who think they found a sinecure one day find out they were wrong. It can be a good experience to work at a place like this for a year or two, and it looks good on a resume, anyone who stays for a long time I think is crazy, and their personality always seems to me to change, they seem unhappy. Look how nervous you seem in your post, it does not seem the post of a content, happy person. You're at a company at the apex of world financial power, yet they make you feel insecure. You're one of the workers doing all the work that creates that wealth for them, but they seek to make you feel like a disposable peon. You are a disposable peon.
Anyhow, your age works against you. People are smart enough to not say any age discrimination stuff, but I've been forced to pass over extremely qualified candidates more or less because (unsaid) they were old, had a family they would have to spend time with, might stick up for themselves etc.
If you want to stay in finance, connections are everything. When the cuts come, and they always do, the managers will get together and decide who stays and who goes. Are any of the decision makers going to fight for you? Aside from this, keeping in touch with people when they move to other companies is important, especially when you're looking for work. The stupidest thing you can do is stick your head down and do a good job for sixty hours a week. No one gives a shit - at all. If you think the vultures running your company care, if you think your manager's manager cares, you are a complete fool. Politicking is everything in places like that. As far as consulting, usually these places want to deal with consulting companies, so you have to get to know the project managers and such at consulting companies. This is not hard to do - the project managers want to have a good relationship with hired staff at the company, they want their consultants supported and to get more business, they know you can always be the one who is bumped to team lead or manager.
Also, if you're not chasing the brass ring where you are there is NO reason for you to be there. Your goal should be to be either a managing director in IT (which there are very few of, because the bank considers IT a backroom joke) or in the elite architecture/engineering team. Why would someone kill themselves at these places otherwise, other than to get the experience and resume blurb for a year or two?
As far as getting a job, it is like this: there is a bell curve. Most people are in the middle. You are probably in the middle. Most interviews are looking for people on the right end of the curve. When you go on a technical interview, do you miss questions? I've interviewed dozens, maybe hundreds of people. People on the right side of the bell curve can answer mostly everything I throw at them - 99 out of 100 questions. A few people are on the left side and know very little. Most people are in the middle, you can tell they kind of know it, and could probably do the job, but you're n
My advice (Score:5, Informative)
I'm a big believer in the idea that social interactions are more important than job skills when it comes to getting or retaining a job. Just think : how many people have you worked with that seem to have no job skills whatsoever, but they often thrive in an office, undeservedly becoming manager when they don't know how to spell IBM?
Those people are either lucky, or more likely, they know how to manage the social game. With that in mind, here's my advice:
1) Learn to play office politics.
I'm not talking about some sort of 80's and 90's era sabotage-the-other-guy or beat-them-with-a-better-pitch schtick. Just realize that the ability to socialize in a business setting is a valuable job skill. Make sure you know what's going on in the office, and at worst, offer to pitch in where you can, or act to perform introductions between those that need and those who can provide.
This ability is especially rare among stereotype IT/developer types, so when it's recognized, it's usually well rewarded. If you're having problems in this area, I recommend joining a toastmasters group if simple social interaction is your issue, or asking a manager to mentor you ... which leads to my next item.
2) Keep climbing up.
The standard business operates not based on income, but the rate at which their income is fluctuating. If it's not going forward, then there's something that needs to be 'fixed' - at least from a stock, investor, board standpoint. This feeling trickles down though. If you're happy doing the same job for years, then either there's something wrong with you, or the job - according to some managerial viewpoints. That's why they ask you stupid questions like, "Where do you see yourself in 5 years," in your interview/review. They're just checking that you're normal, according to their standards.
The easiest path up is management. Ask to be mentored, indicate that you want to move into management. Leverage your technical seniority. You can go the project management route since there's an easy certification for that, if you're into certifications (some companies are, some aren't).
Alternatively, court the architect position. If it doesn't exist at your company, request that it be created for you. You don't need more money (though you shouldn't ~say~ that), in fact, you might not even need new responsibilities. Just do it for the title. It's important. Maybe not to you, but when they make decisions at the top level, they know they can afford to get rid of developers - even a senior developer or two - but an 'architect' sounds invaluable.
3) Take ownership .. ugh... powerpoint, drawing gant charts, whatever it is that will sell that idea to the business with YOU as the lead.
You've spent significant time at your company, and you have a good idea of the technical domain. You must have a million ideas about what can be done, and what can be done better. Find something you can care about and make it happen. That means drawing up a business plan, inserting yourself in manager's schedules, getting approval, learning
It helps then, to be able to pull it off, but honestly it doesn't seem to be all that important.
4) Self-promote.
Ugh. I hate this one, but it's necessary. The only people who may really know your value is your co-workers, and if you're on a small or isolated product, maybe not even them. Your manager ~may~ have a good idea of what you're worth, but let's guess that it's 50%. His manager only has about a 10% grasp, and the department manager with 300 people only knows you by job title and the section his direct report manages.
If your manager isn't whooping up your name and your co-work
Keep it simple (Score:4, Insightful)
Pure opinion here - if it was me in your shoes I'd have the wife getting into the job market (heck, what is she going to do at 40 if you get hit by a bus anyway?). At 40 if I was uneasy about my current job I'd start looking at sprucing up my resume and putting my name out there just to see how the market is biting. I'd like to think we're all fairly flexible in case of layoffs - I seem to always run into various people looking for all spectrums of folks in the IT world. The biggest thing is being willing to relocate. Beyond that all I can say is I hope you've made the most of your career thus far because that's what's going to keep you afloat.
Move where the cost of living is lower. (Score:4, Interesting)
Re:Move where the cost of living is lower. (Score:4, Interesting)
Not sure where you got this idea that developers are gods here in Brazil. It is seen by the general public as a good career choice (while, in the US, that doesn't seem to be the norm anymore) but it doesn't really pay that well for the average guy. And a great salary here is about what the average guy earns in the US. Living cost isn't that much lower: rent is cheaper but nearly everything else is 1.5-3x more expensive. In other words: you wouldn't be able to afford a view to the beach.
Also, the economy is not doing very well. Our current government has managed to fool the international community, but if the current economic crisis goes on for a couple of years more, Brazil will be in trouble. They gambled the crisis wouldn't last for a long time... but their bet is already starting to fall apart.
Finally, as a foreigner, you'd be a prime targe for robberies, purse snatchers, etc.
Some suggestions to stay employable (Score:5, Interesting)
(1) Stay physically fit and active, and keep up your appearance. Nobody wants to hire a middle-aged slouch with a pot-belly, tattoos, and greasy hair. Your spouse will appreciate this too.
(2) Learn another human language. Spanish, Mandarin, Arabic, etc.
(3) Participate actively and meaningfully in the open source projects of your choice, using your real name (not a goofy pseudonym) so that you will have examples of your work to show to potential employers.
(4) Participate in local charity and volunteer organizations. This will help improve your people skills.
(5) Turn off the TV and read books instead. Non-fiction is best, but even fiction is better than nothing. Keep improving your mind.
Guarantee your Freedom First (Score:4, Interesting)
As a foreigner living in US for some years I got scared by the way our fellow americans live with Debt.
First thing is check your mortgage and check if it is possible to re-adjust or re-finance with lower interest and after check ways for you pay it in ADVANCE.
Being as employer and employee I can assure you:
The man who has freedom, real freedom (paid his house and has 'easy' cost of living) is in better way and better mindset to negotiate.
Anecdotal story:
I had to fill a position for medium level from several applicants I had 2 very distinct.
a) One was middle age (35) but has all his house paid, and he even took one year in Paris just 'for learn French'
b) Other was 45 and have 20 years of mortgage because he fall for the 'housing bubble'
The guy with the paid mortgage was very calm on interview, proactive and well mannered.
Other the mortgage guy was desperate and near a hear attack.
I had to choose the free mortgage guy because he was the best choice for the company. technically and MENTALLY
Please, I assure you I want the best for all the fellow man who live this country.
Can you 'downsize' your costs? move to a smaller but PAID(or lower month paymnt) apt? Bring MORE safety for your family but less 'luxury'.
I know the american dream is big spaces or house, but really. Do you really need that?
What about get downsized on costs and Later move on but more security?
Medicare and Social Security ONLY works if you had ALREADY paid your house.
I hope for your safety and best for your family
Heard of Facebook? (Score:3)
I am 39, going 40 this year. 3 years ago, I was an RPG programmer (IBM Iron). My employer, TD Waterhouse bank, had no interest in moving to more modern tech.
I saw the writing on the wall to my carer, I needed to act. So, I made a facebook game..... it was pretty pants poor, though I did learn new skills. More importantly, I was able to show this game off in an job interview for a Java Web developer.... I got the job because of it.
So, my advice to you is to build your own personal project, Make a website, make a facebook game. the game might not get you anywere, but it will improve your carrier prospects no end.
Take the red pill (Score:5, Interesting)
I took the red pill 4 years ago. I was a senior tech drone at a university and could have easily spent another 25 years to retirement skating in the tech side of academia. I woke up one day at 43 years old, looked back, and realized my life had been stolen. I had spent 5/7th of my existence doing things I didnt give a shit about while waiting for the weekend to cram my life into.
I decided enough was enough and I walked away.
I took my savings and retirement and got rid of every debt I owed and bought some land. I started a small business and got my monthly living expenses under $1000. Im at about $600 right now and hope to go lower.
I built a house by hand..still working on it, but its all mine, every stinking stick of wood.
Ive got a ways to go as Im working towards doing the farm thing..but thats my path. Decide what yours is and follow it. Maybe it is to be an employee, maybe that fulfills you.. but I suspect deep down that no intelligent person really wants to work until they are old, used up. I suspect they are just doing it because they are afraid of the unknown and afraid of losing their security. The question is, is security worth looking back on your life to realize you never really lived?
No, its not easy. No, it is not fun. No it is not secure. But yes...yes it is freedom and hell yes it is living. At least for me.
Which pill
As someone who was 40 and is now 54... (Score:5, Informative)
I had similar concerns and this is what I did, and how it turned out.
[Sorry this is so long, but I spent way too much time making it this short.]
At about your age I was facing the prospect of going the management route or doing what I loved. I had been acting like a manger as a team lead but avoiding much of the messy side of dealing with personel. I was expected to move on up and take on the added burdens of full management and give up the hands-on fun (for me) stuff. Didn't want it, yet I saw what happened to 50 year olds who didn't move up. I didn't want that either. So, I planned an exit strategy, and left becoming more or less a consultant. I had an incorporated company(very important to be an employee of a company - not a freelancer) already set up and 6 months of cash put away before I left.
Here are a few key things that worked for me. They weren't really part of my strategy, but just came naturally, and really paid off.
(1) I really cared about the folks (mostly 10 to 15 years younger) I was leaving behind, and I wanted them to succeed after I left. I made it a point to mentor them, so they could survive after I left.
(2) I really cared about the organization and the current projects I was working on, and delayed my departure for a year, to make sure they succeeded and there was a heir apparent team lead to take over.
(3) I didn't tell anyone what I was planning, other than my wife, my dad (who had just retired) and a close uncle.
(4) When I was ready to leave, I went to my boss, and told him I would like to sit down with his boss and anyone else that they wanted to invite and explain exactly why I was leaving, what I intended to do after I left, and make sure that any rumors would be put to bed about why I was leaving. I reviewed everything I would say with my boss, and asked for any suggestions he had that might make what I said as painless as possible for him and his boss.
(5) The main points of that meeting were (1)(2) and (3) and I wanted them to know what I planned, before my peers and team members found out, so they could prepare to deal with any fallout.
(6) I also offered that I would stay up to 6 more months to help finish or transition projects, or I was prepared to be escorted by security on the spot to clean out my desk (which was official human resources policy at my previous job).
(7) The last and maybe most important point I tried to make in this meeting was that I was hoping not to burn any bridges, because they, the organization, the bosses, the team members helped make my career, and I didn't want them thinking bad about me, because who knows, they might even need me from time to time as a consultant. I told them that, I wasn't just thinking about it.
Now frankly, I figured I had a 50-50 shot of being shown the door immediately or worse. They probably thought I was a bit crazy leaving excellent pay and benefits for an uncertain future, but seemed to respect the approach I was taking.
Bottom line - they asked me to stay on for 6 more months and gave me a great send off complete with memorabilia. 6 months after that I was their consultant and they started outsourcing some development tasks, and now 12-1/2 years later, I still do work for them. Most of my income comes from other sources, but they are a dependable customer and the people I left behind have brought me a lot of business through their natural networking. My house is paid for, both my kids went to college, for as long as they wanted, and are doing very well in their chosen professions. I'm able to give away a substantial portion of my income to benefit those less who are less fortunate. So at least to this point it as worked out well by any measure.
One last part but not the least part of this story - (I'm pretty sure this will get mod'ed down because it cuts so much against the grain), I prayed this whole thing through, before during and after. I 'knew' this was the right thing for me to do and there was a right way to do it.
Full disclosure: Yes I'm one of those. In
you see all those peons using your systems? (Score:3)
ever notice how they stay in the same jobs for 10 years, maybe 20? while managers, consultants, experts, systems analysts, etc, get layed off repeatedly?
go be a peon.
not joking. you can still get layed off, its just that they will always need someone to repeatedly do boring ass work shuffling stuff from one place to another.
Re:Question: (Score:4, Insightful)
Because bank corporation people don't have wives who are probably also around 40, and don't have a life expectancy of 80 or so, and thus aren't the same as people people who eventually run out of the choice to have a family if they don't act on it.
Re:Question: (Score:5, Funny)
"Yes, because if you adopt a child it costs absolutely nothing to feed, clothe, educate and entertain them for the next twenty years. "
You moron, he obviously meant that the guy gets _himself_ adopted by a rich guy.
Re:Question: (Score:4, Interesting)
On the other hand, I was 42 when my first kid was born twelve years ago and I had 20+ years before that with few responsibilities. When you have kids late you can never claim, "you didn't get to do things in life" -- if you haven't gotten around to the sports cars, exotic vacations, or advanced degrees by the time you are 40, you are never going to get around to them and so can be content that you already did all the things you wanted to do by yourself. I'm not planning on becoming feeble and unable to keep up with the kids any time soon -- I look forward to when they can give me a good run or tennis match.
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Because he's 40. How much longer should he wait? If you wait for the right moment, you'll never do it. Haven't you seen Idiocracy?
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Hey mods, '1, Insightful' is not a substitute for '1, Glad someone else suffers from crippling social problems too'.
hth.
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But perhaps I only feel this way because I'm not an asshole that assumes kids are a status symbol?
Re:Question: (Score:5, Insightful)
I have a hard time understanding why the parent was modded "Insightful" for this trolling. Just in case someone does think it's insightful:
Why have kids at all? I know it's the social norm and there's some nagging instinct to procreate (Darwin practically insures it) but there are some serious draw backs.
This is true, however to many people, the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks.
* It's environmentally irresponsible at this point to have kids.
Possibly true; however it's more environmentally unfriendly for those who have kids that will continue to act socially irresponsibly. If the kids are raised with environmental awareness as an important factor, there'll probably be a net benefit for the environment overall. If we only allow the irresponsible and dumb to breed, the environment will suffer far worse.
* Kids are expensive.
Reasonably true, but it depends where you live as to how much of a real burden that is. I understand the "Ask Slashdot" was almost certainly posted by an American and there's a lot of American readership here, but the rest of the world does behave quite differently at times. Here in Germany for having kids we get tax breaks; additional money on top; and lots of important things are free (or close to free). I'd say financially, I'm about the same now as before my wife and I became parents.
(yes, I'm aware it comes out of taxes, so I am indirectly paying all of the costs that way - but I was before she was born anyway; so it's no real difference there)
* Kids make things complicated when you finally wise up and dump the bitch.
That sounds like it was written by a bitter teenager. Some relationships DO last...
Even in the unimaginable case that one day my wife and I go our separate ways, then yes, our daughter will be a complicating factor. But the chance seems so remote, it's a risk I don't even bother thinking about.
* You can love a dog or cat just as much and spend next to nothing on them. (ok not a draw back.. draw sideways?)
Anyone who thinks this has clearly never had children.
* If you're not going to get Social Security what chance to your kids have of getting it?
Again, see the thing about "rest of the world isn't like the US". There's nothing forcing you to stay there (on original topic: my answer to the submitter would be to consider moving country before he gets too old)
* Kids are destructive. No really, you'll work 18 years to house break them and they'll still not be house broken by the time they move out.
Learning to live in society takes time, yes. But I object to the phrase "house breaking" in this fashion. I don't know about you Mr AC, but I was hardly "destructive" since getting past puberty. Or at least, no more so than I still am today (and that can be taken out on non-harmful things like blowing stuff up in computer games from time to time)
* The status symbol of having a baby really only last about a month. After that you're just the average asshole again.
Status symbol? I can't imagine the idea of having a baby as a "status symbol". You have kids because a biological imperative pushes you to do so and then you love them. You don't do it for peer approval!
Not learning your lesson, a few years later you'll be the junky after another hit. It's really hard to just have one.
My wife and I are deliberating about having a second, but if we don't, just one will be fine. My wife's an only child. There are many others in the world as well, disproving that lame argument fairly thoroughly.
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It's the people who think the love of a pet can equal the love of a parent for a child, and vice versa, that need to back up their claims IMHO.
There is nothing impossible about it. I just think it's ridiculous that someone could state that as a fact as if they knew everyone's feelings.
If you really don't like children to the extent that you think you might as well have a pet, it is you who is "different."
Uh, well, yes. If I say that person X is different from person Y, then that's the same as saying that person Y is different from person X. It's not that you have to dislike children, either. Your feelings for an animal just have to exist in a certain way.
Re:Question: (Score:5, Funny)
Example #3,573 of why asking for life advice on Slashdot is like asking for technical assistance on Yahoo Answers.
Re:Question: (Score:5, Funny)
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Re:Question: (Score:4, Insightful)
There is the slight drawback that if no one had kids, the human race would die out rather quickly.
There is next to no danger of that happening. I don't think the person was suggesting that everyone stop having children.
But as you sound like the typical slashdot teenage socially inadequate sociopathic cynic
I think you forget to add in "rapist," "thief," "murderer," and "psychopath." I don't think your version had enough meaningless, random insults.
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But it's pretty clear that you really don't "get" this whole people-life-emotions business.
Having emotions does not mean always acting irrational or treating those who are more in control of their emotions as sociopaths. The former seems to be expected behavior (or you're a sociopath), the latter is simply preposterous. I "get" emotions, it's just that I try not to use them to arrive at conclusions I find positively insane. What some people don't seem to "get," however, is that different people exist, and not everyone is the same. Shocking, huh?
Re:Question: (Score:5, Insightful)
Why is your family growing if you are looking at possible layoff?
Because maybe they decided to have another kid before he knew his job was in danger?
Don't be a dick. If all you can come up with to say to someone who's in a bad situation is, "Well, if you'd done this, that, and the other thing differently, you wouldn't be in this situation right now" then you should probably just keep your mouth shut. Really, it says a lot more about you than it does about the person you're talking to -- and none of what it says is good.
Re:Question: (Score:5, Insightful)
No, I have to agree with him. I see lots of people having kids like it was deciding to buy a Diet Coke. They don't get that is a *huge* responsibility that lasts at least 18 years, costs tons of money, time, etc. to properly raise kids. Having kids is easy, raising them properly is not. I'm not going to sit here and say "people shouldn't have kids", but it shouldn't be an automatic thing where everyone decides to pump out three kids "just because".
Of course the problem is that people who are smart enough to think about it might avoid having kids, and those who aren't "accidentally" have 3 or 4.
Re:Question: (Score:4, Informative)
Idiocracy may have been a comedy, but it called the shallow end of the gene pool straight up.
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You can also read "The Marching Morons" by Cyril M. Kornbluth, he had that idea already in the 50ies.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Marching_Morons [wikipedia.org]
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No, I have to agree with him. I see lots of people having kids like it was deciding to buy a Diet Coke. They don't get that is a *huge* responsibility that lasts at least 18 years, costs tons of money, time, etc. to properly raise kids. Having kids is easy, raising them properly is not. I'm not going to sit here and say "people shouldn't have kids", but it shouldn't be an automatic thing where everyone decides to pump out three kids "just because".
Of course the problem is that people who are smart enough to think about it might avoid having kids, and those who aren't "accidentally" have 3 or 4.
The best way to avoid having kids is never to have sex with someone of the opposite gender, so I suppose most slashdotters are fairly safe
Re:Question: (Score:5, Insightful)
News flash: It's the absolutely poorest countries that have had birth rates of 6-7/women on average, I think one of my grandparents had 9 that lived to adult age. If it was expensive to raise a kid, only the richest countries in the world could afford that. Children are only expensive because today the standard is an all-expenses paid package complete with brand clothing, iPhones, expensive vacations and their own personally decorated private room so that two incomes can barely deal with raising three kids. If you want to invest the time and responsibility, I'd say go for it. Despite that the saying is "putting food on the table", there's extremely few that can't actually put literal food on the literal table. Being raised by good parents in a poor home is still going to beat being raised by bad parents in a rich home by a long shot.
Re:Question: (Score:4, Insightful)
Actually the poorest countries have large families because the women are uneducated and there is a high mortality rate. Solve those two problems in any society and the birth rate plummets.
Kids are NOT expensive (Score:4, Interesting)
Where did this myth come from? As a parent of young children, I found that for the most part, kids are not expensive. There's a marginal increase in food / medical / clothing costs, and saving a bit for college, but it's not bad; most of the big expenses (housing, bills, saving for retirement) stay the same.
The only thing expensive about having kids is day care / preschool, which is pricey. But if one parent doesn't work, then they can take care of the kids. If both parents work, then it's a two-income household, and most should be able to bear that cost. Single parents are truly screwed here.
-- 77IM
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Because maybe his job sucks and his wife is a little hottie and banging her is, well, FUN. It's called life... :)
Ageism (Score:5, Interesting)
Re:Question: (Score:5, Funny)
she's not a hottie if she's close to his age.
It's always instructive to hear the views of the younger generation on sexual matters. And by "younger" I mean "twelve or under".
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If all you can come up with to say to someone who's in a bad situation is, "Well, if you'd done this, that, and the other thing differently, you wouldn't be in this situation right now" then you should probably just keep your mouth shut.
Well to be fair, while the guy who asked can't undo those things, it might be helpful info for people who have yet to make those sorts of decisions.
Insensitive perhaps, but it can be a very useful skill to be able to learn from other people's mistakes, or even from their less-than-perfect choices. It seems like a perfectly good waste of our our own various imperfections, screwups, and failures to predict the future if we don't allow other people to benefit from the lessons they teach us.
Re:Question: (Score:4, Insightful)
Your parents should have used either of birth control of abortion from what I can see..
Re:Question: (Score:4, Funny)
Instead they named him Skyler!
Re:Question: (Score:5, Funny)
or make sure that they can afford goddamn babysitters before they go out, so their frazzled nagging asses and undisciplined shithead spawn don't ruin my otherwise peaceful dinner date
I seriously have trouble believing that you've ever had a 'peaceful' dinner date
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If you count someone being bound & gagged as peaceful then that's the only type of dinner date he's had.
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If you count someone being bound & gagged as peaceful then that's the only type of dinner date he's had.
Bring out the gimp.
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Just curious.
Re:Question: (Score:5, Interesting)
I am 40 years old right now. I used to be a senior developer, software architect, network admin of a bank and finally manager of "networks and hardware" department in that bank. I finally got fed up of the work pressure and office politics. I remember that at one point in time I became sure that I will 99% have a heart attack in the next 6 months. Then every day I would worry whether today is the day (just imagine a retail bank with hundreds of branches, thousands of users, shitty communications infrastructure of my country, many disconnected branches at any time and hundreds of angry customers waiting to do their job).
In order to save my life I resigned and returned to Academia and did a PhD hoping that teaching and working in Academia will be more peaceful. During the study my financial situation became weak, my wife of 10 years cheated and left with a very rich man (15 years older than me and 20 years older than her).
Now I am almost finished with the PhD, have no life and no job. I have a teaching job offer (pending PhD graduation). The pay for a PhD lecturer is around $2000 in the current country I stay and $1500 in my own country.
By your standard, I have no right to marry again (let alone have a kid) and you would perhaps suggest me to do software development (presumably open source for free). Have you ever thought marrying, having kids and a family are fundamental rights of a human (and even an animal)?
Re:Question: (Score:5, Insightful)
Congratulations, I think you saved your life !
I hope you are happier now.
If your wife quit you so easily, it means that she didn't love you, she was expecting your money.
I'm sure you'll find a better wife soon (probably in 2 years since our life changes by cycles of 7 years).
It's not easy to stop living a destructive life, and start following his dreams.
I don't know what you'll do in a few years, but I'm already sure that you are a great guy.
And don't listen about people who think only about money:
"He who dies with the most toys wins"
Re:Question: (Score:4, Funny)
I'm sure you'll find a better wife soon (probably in 2 years since our life changes by cycles of 7 years).
Not only that, but the conjunction of the planets and stars when we were born fixes our character and fate anyway, so no need to worry!
Re:Question: (Score:4, Insightful)
No it isn't. We're barely saturating this one planet despite trying so hard at it for so long, and there's 13.7 billion light-years of visible universe around.
Re:medicare (Score:4, Interesting)
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As it is very European to have a health care system and other social security stuff based on state controlled solidarity, they will never get it. Look at what they call Obama-Care, it is a faint resemblance of what we have, and they are still pissed about it. We have state driven health care, it costs half of the US per person health case cost, but all are covered and the minimal and average health care quality is better. The OECD report on health care systems is a good read to see what the differences are
Re:medicare (Score:4)
Keep in mind a couple interesting points.
1. The 'Obamacare' bill was written by the medical insurance 'industry'. It was designed to legislate a revenue stream to guarantee their profits.
2. The 'Obamacare' bill was written and moving through Congress WAY before the '08 election. It got sat on through most of '08 waiting the results of the election.
3. It was submitted by Republicans.
4. The timing of the bill is being used by the Republicans as a 'poison pill'. They shoved it down Obama's throat. Had he not signed the bill, they would have barbequeued him for 'abandoning the middle class', but since he signed it, they get to lambast him for 'adding to the national debt'. Win/win, as far as they're concerned, because they get to make him look bad depending on the spin they apply.
Re:Adapt (Score:5, Insightful)
(not trying to make this a religious thread). As a buddhist would say, "attachment causes suffering". Are you attached to your job? your position or status it seems to infer on you? The money? the lifestyle (and concurrent levels of debt) it seems to afford (today)? You've got choices to make, so make a plan and make the choices NOW, either try to ride out what seems to be the Titanic heading for an iceberg (if it hasn't yet hit it), or make plans.
To be honest, your current employer work won't miss you when you leave (if you leave soon, you'll turn into everyone's WTF guy in a week or two...), nor will HR have any reservations at all about throwing you under the bus to meet new headcounts or to protect someone's executive bonus or quarterly share targets if the shit really does start hitting the fan. You're not in the military, waiting to serve out an enlistment or officer obligation under penalty of law. You still have freedom of action, and you won't be acting out of desperation. If you owe them (e.g., company paid for college courses you haven't "worked" off yet), be prepared to pay them back. DO NOT LET stupid shit like that hold you back.
As others have said, it's easier to make changes to all of those things on your terms and timeline. Hopefully you've been saving up to weather a rough patch for a year or two. If not, start now. Trim back your lifestyle now while it's voluntary, and stock up cash and get rid of debt. Wife should probably get over being a prima donna stay-at-home mom if she's able to work (if you need the evangelical support for this, listen to Dave Ramsey). Kids tend to come out OK despite our best intentions, so don't let that affect things too much, either. But again, if you wait until it is a desperate situation... They need to learn that shit happens at some point, better to do it when things are sane and not desperate, and see that it's good to accept the situation, come up with new plans, and move on, not "OMG I got laid off. I'm on unemployment, we're buried by bills, and my wife thinks its all my fault!".
If you wait until the shit hits the fan, you do risk your family relationships going to shit and while you're still in shock moping around, with the world on your shoulders. Child support at this age will suck for you financially, especially since your wife won't have an income of her own to fall back on. Parenting by remote control sucks. Just sayin'.
Do you remember what it was like to be dumped? Did you also dump others? If so, remind yourself, callous as it is, which position was it better to be in? Only you will know when it's the right time to flee the ship, but if you wait until the stern of the boat is pointing up into the sky, it's probably too late, even if the band is still playing.
Re:Be your own boss. (Score:5, Insightful)
I have to ask myself what happened to the pioneering entrepreneurial spirit that made America into the most prosperous country in the world
Hard to say, although the problem is not Big Government, although it's somewhat of a factor. Most of the shit that businesses get comes from Small Government. You will spend a lot more time wrestling with local restrictions than the Feds. The Fed stuff is usually pretty cut and dry. State is harder, and cities can be truly obnoxious. In general, the smaller the government entity the more of a hassle it is to deal with, which is why I always find the complaints about Big Government ironic.
By the time you drill down to condo associations, it's truly a nightmare.
In general, the smaller the institution, the worse it is. The smallest government institution in our lives is marriage. It drives you crazy, and 50% of the time it ends in divorce. If the Federal Government tried to do half the things your spouse does, there'd be a revolution next Tuesday.
Established Interests (Score:5, Insightful)
Hard to say
No actually it is quite easy to say - you stopped being a country on the frontier with lots of virgin territory (both literal and figurative) to expand into and became an adolescent country with established business interests that fight tooth and nail against any new, entrepreneurial ideas that threaten their business model.
On the good side your spirit still seems to be there - look at the boom created by the new virtual territory of the internet which allowed original ideas to flourish briefly again because the established interests did not see it as a threat. Of course now it has its own established interests and, if you start something new and successful, you'll be snowed under by patent court cases until you are bought out or shut down.
Re:Be your own boss. (Score:5, Insightful)
Get into some entrepreneurial education program, learn how to do a business plan and where to find investors, or put something up on kickstarter
And fail, like 95% of those projects do. Entrepreneuring is the game of either the young or the rich; the young don't have enough commitments to make the risk really hurt, and the rich have enough assets to absorb the shock. If you're middle-aged, with a mortgage, and high ongoing costs in regard to the maintenance of your family, the risk just isn't worth it.
Re:Be your own boss. (Score:4)
It's still alive - and just like it always was, the activity of a minority. Not everyone has the skills or the stomach for it.
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I wish there was a moderator option of 'misinformed' but there's not, so I'm just going to reply.
You're not taxed twice (unless you started a corp for some reason). I've been a contractor for over a decade. My effective federal income tax rate was 15% and around 18% if you tossed in self employment tax (SS) and the like. (I'm not actually sure on the numbers, but know it was ~19% total). So hardly 30-40%.
I don't have a family, but my personal health insurance costs me $180 a month. That's a 10k deducti
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FWIW I had a check I deposited at an ATM "corrected" for /10 the amount.
I called the bank and they said they don't make that kind of errors.
I insisted. Finally they checked and wow, they were wrong!
All this was in one phone call of 10 min (not several spread over hours).
Within half an hour I was credited back the proper amount.
The difference between my experience and what you describe?
I'm with a Credit Union (NCUA, not FDIC). Seriously, there is no excuse to be with any NA (not BofA, not Chase, not Wells
Re:Here's the secret, bro... (Score:5, Insightful)
In the 70s careers tended to last 20+ years, in the 80s this number dropped to 6 years, The 90s came and distinctions blurred between jobs, careers, hobbies and survival. Buddy, we're 10+ years into the new millennium. Figure out what you need to do and quit looking at standard models.
Can you work for yourself?
Is there something you can manufacture or service you can perform without needing an overseer?
Are members of your family old/strong enough to contribute to a family business?
If you can quit relying on others for your prosperity, you can dump this whole useless line of worry.
IT has been a bust for careers, compared to the promise of the 90s. We may even be forced into ludditism by coming solar storms in the next few years.
Find a need or demand and fill it. Think outside the box. Learn self sufficiency and quit mourning money you threw at the last "career", it's gone and tomorrows challenges may not be helped by it. Dammit, you're a geek, get flexible and quit thinking about the obvious, overcrowded, overrated, overused path to a paycheck. Find something that people could pay cash for, too. If they don't know you have it, they can't tax it.
If you really need a moment to think and a jumpstart, it may sound ridiculous on the face of it, but, join an MLM. Even if you aren't successful, you will have a low cost education in business,sales and people skills, self motivation and probably a cupboard full of vitamins. These ingredients, less the vitamins are vital to being self employed.
Good luck with your search, may you satisfy your dreams along with your wallet.
Keep the kids coming, that's how we achieve some immortality and offset the scumbags of the world, who are breeding too.
Don't spend your time worrying, it can't help and will hurt. Replace worry with planning and get a good nights sleep.